Once upon a time, dropping the needle on a record loved by the family unit after dinner was the norm. No screens involved. Dance moves in rare form. The next best thing to a live show is a concert-like experience in the comfort of your own home—specifically, the family dance party.
Console:The StandardWrensilva:Why is dancing to vinyl (free of phones) essential to you?Lauren Thomas:Music doesn’t always have to be in the background. Gathering around a small space and picking out records, discussing music, and dancing is an intentional activity that everyone in the family can contribute to. It stimulates conversation and it’s an opportunity for everyone in the group to feel heard and seen. Believe it or not, our kids actually welcome having to put their phones down for gatherings such as these and also at the dinner table. Putting away the phones means putting the present moment first – which is our family in our living room – and I believe that setting this precedent creates a ripple-down for future generations.Wrensilva:What are the Thomas’s vinyl rituals?Lauren Thomas:We all sit in our family room next to our Wrensilva console, either before or after dinner. One person will pick out a record and cue a song, meanwhile, another person ques up a song from their phone and plays that song next using the Bluetooth feature, and they alternate back and forth between the two methods. Since our console can play vinyl and also has Bluetooth capabilities, it mixes it up a bit. There is no other engagement on our phones, rather it is a fun activity that we all feel we are contributing to being a member of the family DJ.